Wednesday, April 25, 2007

**Can anybody tell me.............

how to live life to the fullest. How to live each day as it is ur last. Many people say this crap. But i ve not seen a single person who is living his/her life to the fullest.Yeah sure there r countless things 2 do in life.But 4 that u need plenty of money also.Without money
where u will see urself everyday, either in ur local park/market which is at a walking distance or same boring nearby shopping malls or picture halls. Or if u r lucky enough 2 live near sea shore, then at the beach. Thats it.
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With money u can go to different clubs everyday. From good to the best. Travel different places. Go to distant forests 4 tracking or climb mountains. U can do para sailing. U can watch ur favorite sports live. U can shop unique items from every place u visit. U can see the world.Buy anything u like. As usual many will say i dont agree with u himanshu. Money can't buy happiness. Hahahaha wat a joke.
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First define happiness pls.Happiness is contetment associated with pleasure dear. Every person has different needs and many needs.

--need 4 food, clothes,fresh air and suitable temperature.ie physiological needs


--Need 2 be free from harm or danger i.e security needs

-- Need to be accepted by people and the society. Need to belong to various group ie Social needs.


--Need to gain wealth, power, status, esteem ie esteem needs


--Need to maximize one's potential ie. self actualization needs


Physiological needs cant be fufilled at all without money.


To feel secure u need a house and esp a job so that u feel financially secure. For house u again need money(whether u hire or buy). To get a job u need education/ talent. To get education u need money. Talent which is not polished well cant show its full gleam. To polish ur talent u need money. So 4 security needs u need money again.

Now come the social needs. U wont get friends if u r a beggar. People love u more 4 u ve than wat u r. Trust me. For eg a gorgeous girl generally has tons of friends if she is social. She doesnt need to try hard to get friends.Some will befriend her in a hope to make out with her some day. Some will befriend her just to show off( i know that babe, she is my friend). Few will befriend her without any self interest.

esteem needs are themselves related with acquisition of money. With money comes the power and the status.

Now comes the self actualization need which is the only need which has nothing 2 do with money.


As u can see most of these needs cant be fullfilled without money.Unfullfilled needs lead to frustration rather than pleasure.
So how u r going 2 feel happy without getting pleasure.
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Now if u want 2 earn more than an average person than u will have to work more than an average person. More work means more time is required.Thats means less time for recreation activities or other u do to get pleasure(like chatting with friends or sex). If ur work brings pleasure than u r a lucky person otherwise may god ve mercy on u.
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u work more u earn more but no time left to do anything rather than stuffing ur mouth with food and crashing on the bed at midnight.
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.u work less u earn less. Plenty of time is available to kill flys.
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And people say live life to the fullest=))

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